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A notion of man

When he picks you up from the airport at 1.30 in the morning on the weekdays even though he has to go to work the next day. Even after you tell him that he don't have to, and he still shows up, casually, as if it's nothing of a big deal. When you feel like jumping off of the cliff, and he whispers in confidence, "If you jump, I'm ready to fall".

When you feel like climbing up a hill, breaking a rule, or trespassing a strangers' property in a foreign land and he nods of assurance. That in your exchanging glance, you know instantly that he'll be there to make sure that everything will be ok. That he'll let you do what you need to do because he knows that you just need to do it.

When he pushes and drags, and you find your Achilles heels, while at the same time, you realize your own strength. He walks ahead and challenges your limits. Letting you pick up your pace, but at the same time keeping you safe. You share your 5-years plan that he asks, and you share the moment of silence between when you sit next to each other on a train without saying a word, and you're both ok with that. He lets you pick the bedside and he knows when to ignore you best. 

When you drive him mad with your 2 am hunger, but still he, unwillingly, take you around in the car just to find that place that sells that food, though that means he will only have 2 hours of sleep before he has to wake up and get ready to work. And of course when stands by the door with the way he looks at you and says, "Don't go". When you have that person, keep him. Keep him forever and for life.

15 comments:

  1. Aku berharap.

    Suatu aku akan seperti itu untuk pasanganku, bahkan lebih :)

    Terimakasih untuk inspirasinya

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  2. Love this! You're right; hold on tight x

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  3. It sounds like your processing a lot, through your writing and otherwise. This relationship sounds very meaningful to you.

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  4. beautiful words
    and
    i have! ;^))
    for 27 and a half year already
    x

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  5. Beautifully written, Niken! Definitely keep him!

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  6. Such beautiful words. I am lucky enough to have someone just like that in my life!

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  7. love these words! and i actually really love the wine glasses in the picture. i always loved the ones with a strong stem.

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  8. Such amazing words of wisdom. It sounds like you have found that person, and I'm glad to hear so :). I hope you're doing well Niken :).

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  9. sounds wonderful. and sounds a lot like the gem of a man I just stumbled upon :)

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