Because we're making time
I hear myself say " I don't have time to do that," pretty often. Especially when I'm in the midst of work craziness. I need to clean my room, but I'm too tired after work, I don't have time. My friends ask me to barbecue on the weekend, I need to catch up on sleeping, I don't have time to do that. See a firework tonight? I want to do my script breakdown this afternoon, no thank you. Let's see a music concert this evening? I have to be in other places just 2 and half hour after the concert, next time?. Let's go out for dinner? I'm tired, I'd stay home. Because of this, I missed lots of moment with friends. This happens with my writings too. I don't make enough time to write and sometimes it hurts.
Life is always happening, so we're always gonna be busy and we'll keep saying I don't have time. But we can do things because we're making time. That's what I learn from someone I know. He's the one who always pushing me to go out when I say I don't want to go. He believes that we should make the time for ourselves, and if we arrange every second, we can always make time for everything. We are young, we're designed to be spontaneous and make the best of time.
When I refuse to go to a music concert at 5 pm because I have a meeting at 7 pm, he's gonna say," You still can be on time to your meeting. We'll leave the concert at 6. C'mon, we can do it!". Off we went to the concert and I didn't get late to the meeting. The thing is, I get both, the memories of little moment and still get to do my job. And he's the one who always encourages me to go beyond my comfort zone sometimes.
So now, when I can hear myself think " I can't do that, I don't have time", I'll think over again and see if I can make time. Because you know, sometimes I exaggerate things. I think I'm so busy but when I look at it again and manage the time, I'll find myself see that it all can be arranged. Life is this, and there's just too much to be missed. Let's make time.